Might be a bit early to share this saga but I've had sleepless nights and vaguely warm showers because of it

Long story but bear with me!
A week ago I had a brand new boiler fitted as my old one was 15 years old and although gave me very hot water and radiators in double quick time with brilliant water flow and pressure, the new one simply does not.
The new one doesn't provide anything like warm water even after minutes of running, so washing up and hand washing is usually done in cold water unless running the water for 5 minutes or more. My thermostatic shower is useless as it requires a supply temperature of 55-65°C which looking at the boiler output temperature display never even comes close to that.
The boiler controls for hot water and radiator temperatures are on 65 and 70°C respectively. Vaguely warm water for handwashing will happen after wasting unacceptable amounts of water first and radiadiators will eventually, very slowly, get hot. If I restrict the tap flow to virtually nothing, water temp seems to go up and get warmer quicker. Preheat function does not seem to make any noticeable difference.
So why am I extremely fed up? Well the authorised installer says its fine and all the settings are correct but what he's left me with is taps that waste water trying to get warm water and a thermostatic shower which doesn't function properly

I wish I kept the old one!!