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What a horrible Day today has been

Ive known you all my life @zakdingel and you gave jack everything! What a cracker he was and a absolute credit to you and marilyn! Never seen a coat so shiney! Youve done the best thing having him put too rest as gutting as it may feel, and will do for a long time. Loads of memory,s to smile upon though which will never leave you! I for one will miss him also, he was a absolute belter!💔
 
Today i had to say good buy to my best friend "Jack" Our Black lab had to put down talk about being Gutted i have not cry as much in my life and still fill up just writing this --He was my best friend for just under 12 years he had been with us since he was 9 weeks --it will have been his 12th birthday next month --we new this day would come one day but just did not want to accept it -- like many others on here have experienced --he had not been very well on and off for a while but started new medication in January for a enlarged heart we found out he had --but he picked up loads then a few days ago went back some so yesterday the vet had done a blood test on my request and we found out his kidneys were not working right and he had pancreatitis failure --myself and Mum are just guttered and heart broken --the house feel empty and we are broken ---sorry for the rant just need to get it off my chest


Gutted for you Mr Zakdingel - our previous Westie maybe 15/16 years ago, ate a ripe green Acorn and had a throat blockage- we did not realise why she was unable to keep any food or water down.. had an op and seemed ok, but when we when we were back from the vets, they called and she was having fits and he advised we needed to have her put down straight away, so no chance to even be there, although we were at the vets 20-30 mins before and she had a last shout and looked like she was perking up just as we left the vets...

Never a good time and its pretty much a full on loss when you have a pet pass away.

Very sorry for your loss. :(
 
Today i had to say good buy to my best friend "Jack" Our Black lab had to put down talk about being Gutted i have not cry as much in my life and still fill up just writing this --He was my best friend for just under 12 years he had been with us since he was 9 weeks --it will have been his 12th birthday next month --we new this day would come one day but just did not want to accept it -- like many others on here have experienced --he had not been very well on and off for a while but started new medication in January for a enlarged heart we found out he had --but he picked up loads then a few days ago went back some so yesterday the vet had done a blood test on my request and we found out his kidneys were not working right and he had pancreatitis failure --myself and Mum are just guttered and heart broken --the house feel empty and we are broken ---sorry for the rant just need to get it off my chest

Don't apologise, there is absolutely no need. Saying goodbye is painful but unfortunately it is all part of the dog companionship deal.
You done right by Jack and he knew that. Like many others on here we've been through that last cuddle, tears and whispers seeing them off to heaven. Sorry for your loss mate. Matt.
 
I'm absolutely gutted for you Zak, I know only too well what you're going through. A couple of years ago I had to have my lab, Poppy, put to sleep. Not a day goes by without thinking of her, and soon enough I know ill be doing the same to her pup Daisy. Get strength from the knowledge that Jack had a great bond with you, and doubtless enjoyed life to the maximum. It only hurts so much because there was so much love. Thoughts are with you fella.
 
I feel for you, it's so hard to put into words the amount of loss we feel when losing such a loyal, loving friend, those daft faces that make you smile and laugh, how pleased they are to see you when you come home you struggle to get through the door. Bugger now I am getting upset R.I.P Jack.
 
I know how you feel believe me I do.😥


I once wrote,

“How fragile natures laws so brittle that values life so piteously little”

Rudyard Kipling wrote,

“Oh no comfort can I find except he did not shame his kind”


Byron wrote as an ode to his dog Boatswain,

“Near this Spot
are deposited the Remains of one
who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferocity,
and all the virtues of Man without his Vices.

This praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery
if inscribed over human Ashes,
is but a just tribute to the Memory of
Boatswain, a Dog
who was born in Newfoundland May 1803
and died at Newstead Nov. 18th, 1808

When some proud Son of Man returns to Earth,
Unknown to Glory, but upheld by Birth,
The sculptor’s art exhausts the pomp of woe,
And storied urns record who rests below.
When all is done, upon the Tomb is seen,
Not what he was, but what he should have been.
But the poor Dog, in life the firmest friend,
The first to welcome, foremost to defend,
Whose honest heart is still his Master’s own,
Who labours, fights, lives, breathes for him alone,
Unhonoured falls, unnoticed all his worth,
Denied in heaven the Soul he held on earth –
While man, vain insect! hopes to be forgiven,
And claims himself a sole exclusive heaven.


Oh man! thou feeble tenant of an hour,
Debased by slavery, or corrupt by power –
Who knows thee well, must quit thee with disgust,
Degraded mass of animated dust!
Thy love is lust, thy friendship all a cheat,
Thy tongue hypocrisy, thy heart deceit!
By nature vile, ennobled but by name,
Each kindred brute might bid thee blush for shame.
Ye, who behold perchance this simple urn,
Pass on – it honours none you wish to mourn.

To mark a friend’s remains these stones arise;
I never knew but one -- and here he lies.
 
So so sorry, all of us who've lost a dog know how you feel.

My wife still won't go near the grave of our last Lab and can still well up even though she died more than 20 years ago and now we'll be facing it again as our current Lab will be 12 in September though at the minute she seems OK.
She's my wife's dog really, follows her everywhere and I'm leaving home when it happens as my missus will be in a hell of a state and impossible to live with. She'll be our last dog which makes it even worse.
 
Today i had to say good buy to my best friend "Jack" Our Black lab had to put down talk about being Gutted i have not cry as much in my life and still fill up just writing this --He was my best friend for just under 12 years he had been with us since he was 9 weeks --it will have been his 12th birthday next month --we new this day would come one day but just did not want to accept it -- like many others on here have experienced --he had not been very well on and off for a while but started new medication in January for a enlarged heart we found out he had --but he picked up loads then a few days ago went back some so yesterday the vet had done a blood test on my request and we found out his kidneys were not working right and he had pancreatitis failure --myself and Mum are just guttered and heart broken --the house feel empty and we are broken ---sorry for the rant just need to get it off my chest

So sorry for your loss I lost my German shepherd (13 year’s old) in November last year it just horrible his back legs went so I had to have him put to sleep i was total broken my over German Shepherd pinned for him so much yes the house was empty I still look for him today I feel you pain but chin-up its not going to be easy the next few weeks me and the wife have got another puppy although he will never replace the one I lost but it helps
 

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